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It is the first thing they will ever see! For sure, what you write in your opening message and in your profile will dictate a lot of your success with online dating, but the single biggest factor is how someone responds to your profile picture. Many online dating articles and products will try to convince you that what you write for your first message is the most important skill you will ever learn. The following tips are for both men and women and they will hopefully spare you some of the failures that I went through. It’s this experience, however, that has enabled me to figure out what the hell I am doing, and I wish to share some of my tips and tricks with you. I’ve made countless errors, put up stupid pictures, sent even stupider messages and had “sure things” vanish into thin air. As a “veteran” of over 60 internet dates and nearly 10 years of negotiating my way through the many, many websites out there, I know firsthand how arduous and frustrating it can be. Fixed or not, it’s frustrating, and unless you’re a crack Marine Corps sniper, you will often go home empty handed. Online dating is a pain in the ass.
In reality, it’s like that game at the fun fair where you have to shoot a row of ducks but nobody ever seems to be able to hit the target. With any luck they will like you back and you can look forward to a new life of love, romance and passionate lovemaking. You browse profiles, find someone you like and start a conversation. Think about it: it’s like online shopping for sex. Online dating is the greatest invention the world has ever seen.
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